I used to think that boys will only be interested in girls if they looked good. I thought I would end up being a loner for the rest on my life as I know my looks weren't anywhere near comparable with those pretty girls that the boys were interested in. Along the years as I grew older, I discovered that not all men think the same. I feel blessed to have met a few, who sees through beauty and embraces a woman's inner self. I truly feel that these men to find the right woman for them, so they can be loved for who they are as to who they appear to be.

Believing that someone is a better person than they ever thought would be, is a magical power that makes him or her have that intuition in wanting to be a better person. It doesn't need to be that special someone to do the magic, one just needs to believe it and show support to the other person when necessary. A friend, or a complete stranger, it works just the same. You will never know how your little words of encouragement could mean to the other person.

Though really, I just woke up and the first thing I did today was explore the world of Instagram. Still a daydreamer, I stalked beauty pageants and Victoria Secret's models. I really can't help it. Hahahahaha! Somehow it then occured to me that majority of the men, whom I will dub as BOYS still are attracted to girls who are pretty. Like honestly, how is it difficult for you to know the differences between hell and sincere happiness when in a relationship? I tend to be a little overprotective over my guy friends who had to go through breakups. I mean, they are sort of my bros, how can I possibly not feel pissed if they are upset for some reason? I even get the privilege of listening and understanding how the different the two genders "function" in a relationship. Most of the time I would end up betraying my own gender and be like, "THAT BITCH! Seriously, why did you even go after her in the first place? You're totally off better without her." But most of the times, its the guys who are suffering more than the girls.

Maybe I hang out too often with guys that I could technically feel their pain. But I saw the pain in a different point of view, I was the girl perspective but within the guy's mind. When guys fall in love, they have no clue what they are falling into. They would give their girls everything just to keep them happy, thinking this would make her stay. As long as she is around, he is happy.

Though really, I think that's a very BOY-characteristic. But wait, what about the girl? She will be extremely cautious with and choose carefully of who they want to be with. They make huge ass fusses when she doesn't get things her way. What worries her is that he wouldn't be interested in her anymore. Often a times, the girls are the ones with security issues (hence worrying about him losing interest). Honestly, this isn't everyone that I am talking about, this is merely a general description of whatever that comes off the top of my head.

A guy's mind is simple. If they have a problem, it stays in their head forever until he gets to solve it. This is the part where he would appear distant. What the girl would think is that he doesn't love her anymore.

He spends his time playing video games for hours (or doing his own stuff for hours). Girl would be like "You don't spend time with me anymore!"

There isn't anything that can work to make the other gender change to suit the other gender better. It is how the two understand the differences between the genders and make an in between agreement. I mean, there is no point arguing about something that you can't change. Heck, there is no point to even start an argument even.

Dear guys,

Please stop looking at those pretty face and think that she is a goddess. Stop, listen and think if her character is something you can deal with and not be that blind duck following and giving her everything to impress her. She has brains, don't let her looks fool you. If you marry her and she gets crazy while you get tired and bored, blame your younger self for getting you there.

Dear girls,

What is with the make up and attitude? Its not that difficult to understand guys you know. Not all of them are assholes, stop getting attracted to the wrong guys. Money may get you somewhere, but without a heart, you're going to suffer to keep the marriage up on your own.

But really, I am just blabbing this as I type along. I just hate it when people get married and then decide that they can't be together after sometime. What I hate the most is when they have kids together and decide to split. Way to go ya selfish "adults". You're ruining your kids life. >:(