Life is good.
Provided if you do know how to make the best of it. Thus a silly old habit of mine where I wouldn't believe it when ppl say, 'fml' or 'my life sucks'. Cause honestly, as bad as it gets, if you take things positively, I don't see how a problem could practically ruin your life.
Given the example that I am not allowed to do cheerleading anymore. Yes, that got me really upset for quite sometime, but that did not mean that it was the end of the world. Instead, it got me searching around for other interests that I can pursue, and today, I got myself to have more interest in writing. It may not bring as much excitement as cheerleading, but writing too had been one of my hidden passions. It was just about time that I dug this passion out and put in a little more effort as time passes, and improving it along the way. Who knows if I could actually publish a book someday? A distant dream, now unraveled. About time to take control. :)
Even when we may be facing some down moments in life, all that is needed is a little support from people who believes in us. We all know life is bitchy, it literally throws us all over the place, making sure that we hate life in someways. But with support, and inner courage, problems thrown in by life's PMS, would be tackled easily. Best of all, it brings us to a whole new level of experience once we manage to pull through that period.
If one were to compare how 'sucky' their life is, it really is incomparable. Simply because every individual will have their own set of problems, and each individual will have their own methods on countering the problem, and each individual have their own life for themselves. Fair enough to say that, NOBODY is in control of your own life, but you yourself. Yes, people may give you advices, share with you their story on how they tackle their problems, but you will find yourself handling the matter with your own might in the end. For each and everyone of us has got our own story, and that only 'we' know how to handle our own problems.
Many a times, we would end up making the wrong moves in trying to solve the problem, which would in turn cause it to be worse than it already is. Stop for a bit, was it really a mistake? Or was is it coincidentally that it was not the right thing and the right time that things just fell out of hand. Had it not brought you another scenario and brought you more knowledge on how to handle things better when these kind of things were to happen again in the near future? It really is about the positivity in us that needs to be strong. If everything could be taken lightly, would it not make your heart feel much more calm and lifted? Rather then feeling really depressed and then with all those mopping around, where will this bring you? Nowhere, I perhaps.
We listen to stories, which then inspire us to stay strong and that we can actually go through these problem we have in ease. There may be times where we would look at others and go, 'why can't I have a life like that too?'. Well, you can't, but you can definitely make your own happy ending. And there is also a factor of appreciation. Once we learn how to appreciate things, everything just seemed so much more beautiful than it originally was, somewhat an image that we never noticed before.
What I like to do, is read some inspirational quotes from time to time. Sometimes, they do bring some sort if sentimental realisation when everything seemed clouded. Probably these quotes were written when the certain inspiration or realisation, that was managed to be captured at that moment. Sort of like a vault of unnoticeable awesome moments, allowing people to relive those captured moments, and continue feeling inspired by them. :D
Okay. Emo nemo time done. :P
Feel like playing some tf2 though.
Been really lazy lately, hopefully,I'll remember that I have to be in uni this Tuesday. :D
life really is good.
just allow it to be.
<3
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