This is a little out of the norm. Hehe.
Just felt like posting this. ;)

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Friendzone.

Have been browsing through 9gag pretty often these days, and it surprises me on how addicting it can get. Either by somebody actually creating them or even just by scrolling through each and every one of the posts. It reflects on the everyday life things in comical manner. Mostly on things that we wouldnt realise on normal terms. It is rather entertaining if you ask me. People are paying attention to tiny little details now. Come to think of it, it could actually get a tad bit scary. ._.

9gag had been around for quite abit. I remember beginning of last year where my friend was making memes on random things. I even found one with my name in it. No clue who did it, but it does look pretty cool despite it possibly being a prank. Would probably try googling it again later to see if it's still there. But as the year passed, the 9gag community was expanding at an alarming rate. By mid of 2011, almost everybody was talking about it already. A marriage proposal even made out of memes. Would have to say 9gag is somewhat the new social website where it has been incorporated into real time. Somewhat of a habit to the society today as well. Thanks to the continuous growth of the 9gag readers, 9gag has to upgrade its website quite occasionally too.

Looking at how much it has impacted the society today, I couldnt help but to fall into peer pressure and flow along with them. I speak 9gag now too. Even abusing the word "likeaboss" when it isnt as 'famous' as it used to be now. It literally means, doing things and not feel bothered about what others think of you when you are doing it. We Asians even change the boss into the Chinese version - likealousai. Probably because a Chinese boss seems more ignorant than a normal boss. Then there is a trend where they give levels to certain things, and ASIAN became a whole level on its own.

Though it has brought some vocabs into today's conversations, where words from 9gag fits in easily into the conversations. One noted word that had got my attention where it seems like it had became a whole issue on its own. One that had became a frequent talked about topics amongst youtubers. Right now, I am tempted to write my opinion regarding this topic too. :D friendzone it is. :)

How I see what friendzone means :
- You like the other person but he/she does not acknowledge it, and only treats you as a friend.

Is it a bad thing, really?
I would say it is rather sad to know that you are being friendzoned. Probably because a friend treatment is all you can get out of the person that you fancy, even after doing tremendous amount of things for him/her. As a counter react to that, you can't really expect a response from the other party when they don't know what is actually happening.

So what is it that is making one, willing to wait? Despite knowing that their being friendzoned. It is as though the word 'friendzone' is being used as a for of complaint. What I don't understand is, why complain when you could actually do something about it, or even better, give up, and move on?

In a way that I would see it, if things had been put in a way where we would need to wait, does it not mean it is some sort of an indication that we were actually waiting for nothing? We do see many cases where one could most probably wait forever, yet still being stuck at that same position. How do you actually tell them, put in some realisation to them, that it is time for them to let go?

I guess I got annoyed with the excessive use of the word 'friendzone'. Instead of complaining, I am very sure there are ways to pull you out of that zone, provided you tried. And when you do try putting in some effort, it would either change things or it would not. And by then, you would have the answer you have been longing for.

"God! Why is it always me?!"
Instead of that, why not ask yourself, why are you being such a loser for not trying to do what you are supposed to do, or even get the hint that He is trying to tell you? Dumbass. Stop complaining, would you?

As difficult it is to move on, you will eventually move on. Though it could be rather cliche to say that 'time will heal wounds', well, it actually does work. Stop thinking that it won't, and you'll see the results someday in the future.

It probably just isnt your time yet.
Just hang in there.
He or she will come by someday, somehow.

Stop using the word friendzone. :)
I have argued my point.